Love at a festival
Last week, I went to an Asian festival in Des Moines,. I loved it — seeing the people of different colors. A Chinese man painting names in Chinese symbols, Korean women making “bubble tea,” Nepalese, Japanese, Indian, Arabs with turbans, Filipinos, Vietnamese, Laotians, Cambodians and natives of some unfamiliar-sounding people groups: Hmong, Thai and Taidam.
Wandered around in tents for a while, and right before my family was about to leave, I met an Asian man at the hand-washing station. He said he was from Nepal, and told me that he was one of the third-best chefs in the world. And said he and his team were soon going to Puerto Rico to compete for first place!
I told him that I wanted to go to a prophetic school in California—where they teach about healing and miracles and heaven. I showed him my family with four newly-adopted siblings.
Mangal thought they were beautiful. “Come and see my tent,” he said. So I headed across the lot with him and met his whole team. They were all very gracious. “Here is something for you,” my new friend said, giving me a cross keychain. “I think it is good what your family do. I have relatives who adopt from Nepal. They are having problems with paperwork.”
“Do you believe in miracles?” I asked them all.
“Yes, we do.” The response from three Buddhists and one Hindu. (As if: “Of course, why wouldn’t we?”) I was taken back by their reality and openness. For them, miracles are more than a belief; they are a part of the culture. A culture, I realized, which was vastly different from mine.
“I will pray for your friends adopting. That all goes well.” I said.
“Thank-you,” Mangal said. “Pray also for my physical health.”
Right there, right then, we went back in the tent, and I did.
“Very powerful …” he told me when I finished. “I feel a heavy weight ... like cloud,” he motioned with his hands around his shoulders. “When you pray, it’s gone. Thank-you.” He pressed both hands together and slightly bowed his head. “Thank-you very much, my new friend, Annabelle.”
I’ve had someone tell me that making a friend takes years, but in 10 minutes we became friends. How did I get from washing my hands across from a stranger to holding my friend’s hands in the back of a tent?
Beauty.
I am learning to see the beauty inside of everyone. It may not look like I think; in fact, I might not even think some people are capable of having beauty. But everyone does if you’re willing to look.
I’ve learned that life takes lots of discernment but also lots of risks. I can’t let fear hold me in my comfort zone. Fear is not Love. And without Love I am powerless to help others. I am powerless to do anything but stand back and watch and take care of myself ... But me, I don’t think so! Not me. No, no, no.
I don’t expect to get some kind of thrill when I go out of my way to love others. I don’t expect to get any kind of reimbursement. It’s not the way I get a self-esteem boost, but it does make me feel like I’m making a difference.
Perhaps, meeting my Nepalese friend, Mangal, was just chance, but I think more. I think it was an opportunity to twist my kaleidoscope.
I love people of different colors, races and cultures. I love the way they think and act. I am so happy that they are willing to share a part of their culture with us. They are not like Americans, so sometimes we think we need to “teach” them. I think they have a lot to teach us. Mangal saw something on me that wasn’t me. I hope he saw Love. Because that’s what it’s all about.











